Well after missing a check in last week (thanks in no small
part to a wedding reception where the best man dumped his girlfriend) I’m back
on the wagon of taking part in the RoW80 Check Ins. Sadly the same cannot be
said for my goals. After a disappointing few weeks I can honestly say
that things have not gotten much better. I’m not sure why but it feels almost
as though I fell out of love with writing for a while. I can feel that
enjoyment coming back though, due in no small part to having spent the last
three hours working and writing blog posts. Hopefully I can keep hold of that
enjoyment, remember it and get back to hitting my goals like I was doing
before.
Now, enough of me being miserable, let’s have a look at how
I’ve done this week:
Post 1 blog post other than a RoW80 check in a week – This actually seems to be one of the goals
that I’m consistently hitting. Even when I was at my worst, not really doing
much of anything I was still preparing blog posts and putting them up on time.
It’s something that I really enjoy doing. I mentioned at the beginning of
August that I was planning on sorting out my own website or moving to Wordpress
but I think that for now I’m going to stay where I am. I would like to move
eventually but until my monetary circumstances work themselves out I cannot
really afford web hosting and all that other shiny stuff.
Progress – Excellent
30 Minutes on social media a day – I’ve been on twitter a
little more but every time that I think to myself ‘Oh I’ll go on LinkedIn in a
little while and check out something I saw in the discussions’ I quickly forget
until the next time that I get an email. I’m still not spending 30 minutes a day
on social media. Next week I plan on focusing on this goal, getting it down
until it becomes second nature to do it, just like I did with the blogging
goal.
Progress – Very poor
Spend 1 hour doing a creative activity each day – Yeah...
not so great with this one. I’ve barely written 1,000 words a day on the
Autharium project this week, something that only takes me half an hour at best.
It felt briefly as though I was falling out of love with the project, I had
forgotten why I was writing it in the first place and was completely focused on
the end piece. That is not how you write good stories. I’m going to try to work
my way back up next week but take it slow and steady so that I can get the
momentum going again the week after.
Progress – Poor
Spend 1 hour doing a different creative activity each day – Again,
this has been a terrible thing. I’ve spent more time watching tv than I have
doing anything creative outside of working or blogging. It’s not even as though
I’m pushed for time and super busy. I’m not. I have too much time on my hands I
think and it shows. Once I’ve gotten the other two goals down into a habit I
think I will properly focus on this one. In the meantime I’ll give it my best
try but it comes second place to other things.
Progress – Abysmal
Start and try for completion of projects on the order day –
This one has been fantastic. I’ve been receiving more work, and it’s been a
wider variety of work as well. I’m not just ghost writing now, I’m proofreading
and editing. I’m also writing book descriptions on Fiverr, something to get me
into practice for when it’s my turn and getting me that little bit of extra
income that I know is there in an emergency.
Progress – Great
Over all it’s been a mixed bag. Actually scratch that. I’ve
been letting myself down quite a lot. I forgot that these goals are there to
help me build a work ethic, to help me get into the swing of things and create
some habits that will only help me improve as a writer. I got carried away and
arrogant, thinking that I could do absolutely everything at once and thought of
them as just goals, not a means to an end. Now I’ve realised that though I can
focus once more on treating them as habit building activities, working on one
thing each week more than the others until I do them all almost without
thinking. It’s definitely the social media one that I struggle with the most
however. I just don’t see how I can do it.
What do you think? Do you have any tips to using social
media as a marketing/networking tool? Are there any social media formats that
you might suggest I use? Am I being too hard on myself? Am I being too soft on
myself?! Do I just need a kick up the backside and a good week of hitting my
goals to get back on track? Let me know below in the comments and maybe it
might help other people too.
Created by Kait Nolan in 2010 after she began to struggle with the madness that is NaNoWriMo A Round of Words in 80 Days (or RoW80 as it is commonly known by participants) is the writing challenge that knows you have a life. In four sentences she sums up the idea of RoW80 perfectly: "We are all different and we all have different demands on our time. Why should we all have the same goal? The simple answer is that we shouldn’t. If you want to be a writer, then you have to be able to roll with the punches and adapt to your changing circumstances. If that means changing your goals when your life blows up, so be it. ROW80 is the challenge that champions the marriage of writing and real life."
Be sure to check out other participants and how their goals are going here at the clicky list and be sure to leave a comment on their blogs to encourage them on.
Be sure to check out other participants and how their goals are going here at the clicky list and be sure to leave a comment on their blogs to encourage them on.
I just want to say you're not alone in the falling in and out of love with writing. It's happened to me, and I think many authors probably suffer from the occasional feeling of "I don't like writing, I don't want to do it!" Or the actual dread of opening up the manuscript and experiencing page fright. Hang on. This, too, shall pass. :)
ReplyDeleteIt's very reassuring to know that this doesn't happen to just me. That's the joy of blogging and networking, you get to find out that other people go through similar things and can give you advice about getting over it.
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